I am a 35 year old woman and have been married to my husband for six years. We have two young boys, and our relationship has been strained for about a year. Lately I’ve become suspicious of my husband’s friendship with a coworker.
He started mentioning her name more and more this year, and one night I couldn’t help myself.
I looked through his text messages and saw two messages from the co-worker saying “Here’s my number for when you’re lonely :)” and “You know what they say about things people do when they’re drinking…”
There was no reply from my husband and these were the only texts from this woman. I don’t know if he’s cheating on me, but I have so many questions. Do I tell him I read his text messages? Should I ask if he’s cheating? I’m embarrassed that I read them at all but I want to confront him about this woman.
Ashamed of Snooping